Iqbal Singh Lalpura
Let’s begin with the wisdom of our Gurus: “Yarde da Sanu Sathar change Bhath kharian De rehna” – Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji. In today’s fast-paced, often isolating world, the importance of friendship cannot be overstated. Friends are the unsung heroes of our lives, providing support, comfort, and laughter when we need it most.
The Limitations of Self-Sufficiency
Self-love is essential, but there are fundamental human needs that even the most self-assured individuals cannot fulfill alone:
– You cannot pat your own back.
– You cannot hug yourself tightly.
– You cannot cry on your own shoulders.
These simple truths highlight the vital role friends play in our emotional and mental well-being.
The Gifts of Friendship
Friends bring unique strengths to our lives:
– Lift you up: Encouragement and support during challenging times.
– Wrap you in warmth: Physical and emotional comfort.
– Be your rock: Trusted confidants and advisors.
Beyond these essential supports, friends:
– Share laughter and joy.
– Foster personal growth and learning.
– Create lasting memories.
The Beauty of Interdependence
In an era emphasizing independence, friendship reminds us that interdependence is natural and necessary. By acknowledging our limitations and embracing others, we:
– Recognize our humanity.
– Build resilience.
– Cultivate empathy and compassion.
Nurturing Meaningful Friendships
To deepen and cherish your friendships:
– Prioritize quality time.
– Practice active listening.
– Show gratitude and appreciation.
– Be present in moments of need.
Wisdom from Sikh Gurus
Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji teaches us:
“Nal Aeine Dosti Wadaru Saun Neh! Paani Ander Leek Jiun Jisda Thaun Na Theh” (Do not make friends with unknown people; It is like dividing water by drawing a line)
The wise man tells us “Dosti Jab Kisi Se Ki Jai! Dushmano Ki Bi Rai Li Jai!” (While making friends, consult even your enemies)
Conclusion
Friends are the threads that weave our lives together. As we navigate life’s triumphs and tribulations, remember:
– You cannot do everything alone.
– That’s why you have friends.
– Embrace their love, support, and laughter, and return it with gratitude.
“A true friend is the greatest of all blessings.” – Francois de La Rochefoucauld. Share your appreciation for friends and spread love!
(Iqbal Singh Lalpura is Chairman, National Commission for Minorities. Mobile – (9780003333)
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